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New Owner Guide

New Puppy Care Guide

A practical guide to the first days, weeks, and months with your new puppy — from settling in to the first vet visit and what to watch for along the way.

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The short version: Most puppies need time to decompress, learn the household routine, and start showing their real personality. A simple way to think about it is the 3-3-3 rule — roughly three days to decompress, three weeks to learn the routine, and three months to fully settle in. Below is what to expect and do at each stage, plus when to bring in our team or a vet.
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The adjustment period: 3-3-3

Every puppy adjusts at their own pace, but this rough timeline helps set realistic expectations so you don't misread a nervous first week as a bad fit.

First 3 days

Decompression

Expect hiding, low appetite, or clinginess. Keep things quiet, stick to a small "home base" space, and skip big introductions or outings for now.

First 3 weeks

Learning the routine

Your puppy starts learning feeding times, house rules, and family members. Some personality and quirks appear — this is normal, not a sign something's wrong.

First 3 months

Settling in fully

Trust builds, routines feel familiar, and you'll see your puppy's true temperament. This is a good point to reassess training needs or lingering concerns.

If things feel harder than this timeline suggests, that's worth a conversation with us before assuming it isn't working out — see section 7 below.

Day one A new puppy resting quietly in a calm home space
Give it time

Let them come to you

A quiet corner and a little distance often do more good than a big welcome. Low energy, low expectations, low traffic — that's the formula for a good first few days.

Sniffing around at their own pace, choosing when to approach you, and having a safe spot to retreat to all help a nervous system that's just been through a big change start to settle.

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Setting up your home

Before or right after bringing your puppy home, it helps to have a few basics ready:

  • A quiet, low-traffic "home base" room with water, a bed, and a few chew-safe toys
  • Food matching what we were feeding, at least for the first week or two, to avoid stomach upset
  • ID tag and, if not already done, an appointment to confirm microchip details are registered to you
  • A secure leash and a properly fitted collar or harness, checked for a good fit before the first walk
  • Puppy-proofing — securing trash, cords, small objects, and anything toxic to pets out of reach
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The first vet visit

We recommend a vet check-up within the first one to two weeks, even if your puppy seems perfectly healthy. This gives you a baseline and catches anything that might not have been visible during an earlier exam.

  • Bring the medical records and vaccination history provided at pickup
  • Ask your vet about a parasite check, dental health, and confirming what's already been done (core vaccines, deworming, microchip)
  • Use this visit to ask any breed-, age-, or condition-specific questions about your particular puppy
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Feeding & daily routine

Consistency helps a new puppy feel secure. A steady routine for feeding, walks or potty breaks, and quiet time gives them something predictable while everything else is new.

  • Feed at consistent times, and if you switch food brands, do it gradually over 7-10 days
  • Keep exercise and play light at first, building up as your puppy's confidence grows
  • Give your puppy a way to opt out of attention — a crate, bed, or room they can retreat to without being followed
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Behavior & training basics

Some hesitation, testing boundaries, or the occasional accident is common in a new environment and usually fades as routines settle in.

  • Use positive reinforcement — reward the behavior you want rather than punishing mistakes, which can undermine trust during this fragile period
  • Introduce new people, animals, and situations gradually rather than all at once
  • If you're seeing persistent fear, aggression, or house-training struggles past the first few weeks, a certified trainer or behaviorist can help before small issues become bigger ones
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Introducing other pets & family

Slow, supervised introductions tend to go best. For other pets in the home, that usually means separate space at first, scent swapping, and short supervised meetings before free access to shared spaces. For kids, teach gentle handling and give the new puppy an escape route they can use if they need space.

Bonding A bond forming between a new puppy and their family
Building trust

The bond builds quietly

You probably won't notice the exact moment it happens. One day the hesitation is just gone — replaced by a puppy who follows you room to room and leans into a scratch behind the ears.

Consistency is what gets you there: the same voice, the same routine, the same patience, day after day, until trust stops being something you're building and starts being something you have.

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When to reach out for help

It's normal to have questions, and reaching out early is almost always easier than waiting until something feels urgent.

  • Contact your vet for anything health-related — vomiting, diarrhea, limping, changes in appetite, or anything that seems physically off
  • Contact us for behavior questions, general advice, or if you're wondering whether something feels off — we know this puppy's history and want it to work out for both of you
  • See a vet urgently for anything that seems like an emergency — difficulty breathing, repeated vomiting, suspected poisoning, or a serious injury

This guide is general information, not veterinary advice. Every puppy is different — when in doubt about a health concern, contact a licensed veterinarian rather than relying on this page alone.

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If something isn't right

Most rough patches smooth out with time, patience, and the right support — but if a genuine health issue comes up covered by our health guarantee, our refund & return policy covers how that process works.

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